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I’m an introvert nerd.

I am admitting it to you right now.  My daughter just said to me the other day, ”I want to be like you when I grow up.  You never go anywhere, you are always home, and you don’t stay up late because you always want to read”.  Hmmmm……. I guess it should make me feel good that she wants to be like me.  She also said I am always home spending time with my family, so that made me feel a little better too!  But I am a homebody.  I love being home and I love going to bed as early as possible.  I would have my pjs on and in bed reading every night at 7:00 if it wasn’t for my poor husband that actual does like to get out and be amongst the world.

I have a word document with all the books I have read, the date I finished the book, and my own little short summery of the book.  I keep every book I read and if you ask to borrow one there is a form you have to fill out and a short routine procedure you will have to go though.  I usually read what I find at yard sales or thrift stores, but sometimes I do treat myself and buy a brand new book at the bookstore.  Buying a book at the bookstore makes me feel like a little kid in a candy store.  This is usually how I reward myself if I have reached a goal, accomplished something hard, or if I just feel the need to spend some money!

My goal in January was to read two books a month.  Yes if I read as much as I say I do this should be no problem and my list should be much longer.  However I am a VERYYYYYYYYY slow reader.  I have even looked into taking one of those courses that teaches you how to read faster (not really……. yes I have).  I usually fall asleep three pages after I start, so finishing a book does take me some time.  This is what I have read since the beginning of the year:

  1.        The Great Gatsby,  F. Scott Fitzgerald
  2.        Little Bee,  Chris Cleave
  3.        Crank,  Ellen Hopkins
  4.        Parched, Heather King
  5.        Fear not tomorrow God is Already there, Ruth Graham
  6.        Me talk Pretty one Day, David Sedaris
  7.        The Hunger Games, Suzanne Collins
  8.        Catching Fire, Suzanne Collins
  9.        The Mocking Jay, Suzanne Collins 
  10.        Half Broke Horses, Jeannette Walls
  11.        50 Shades of Grey, E. L. James  (yes I went there)
  12.        Gift from the Sea, Anne Morrow Lindbergh
  13.        The Perks of Being a Wall Flower, Stephen Chbosky 
  14.        Bossy Pants, Tiny Fey
  15.        Seven, Jen Hatmaker (one of my favorites)
  16.        The Light Between Oceans, M.L. Stedman (Splurge at the bookstore and worth every penny)
  17.        The Reader, Bernhard Schlink
  18.        Soul Detox, Groeschel

I love when The Nester takes a photo of “what I am reading now” on Instagram.  Here is my “what I am reading now” photo!!!

I am on the hunt for Gone Girl, Unbroken, The Kitchen House, The Book Thief, and  Divergent.  If you see any of these at a yard sale call me!!!

I’ve talked about my sister in love Beth before.  I love her.  She is also a I’d rather be at home reading kinda girl.  I swear I am going to get t shirts made with that printed on the front.  We are going to the beach together just the two of us in a couple of months.  Watch out Charleston!!!  The two of us together are going to be wild and crazy!!  There won’t be a book untouched!  In our PJ’s reading and asleep by 8:00  WOO HOO!  Any who Beth gave me the BESTTTTTTT gift for Christmas last year.  One Story.

(From the website):  One Story is a non-profit literary magazine that features one great short story mailed to subscribers every three weeks. Our mission is to save the short story by publishing in a friendly format that allows readers to experience each story as a stand-alone work of art and a simple form of entertainment. One Story is designed to fit into your purse or pocket, and into your life.

For only $21.00 you can receive a little book in the mail every 3 weeks for a year.  When I go to the mailbox and see the One story envelope I get all super excited! The stories are great and totally different every time.  I am reading all sorts of great pieces that I may have never picked up.

What is your favorite book? What would you recommend I put on my book hunting list!??!!  I would loveeeeeeeeee any suggestions!!!

Also the winner of the Mason Jar Painting is…………Dottie!

“Mason jars were part of my educational experience,  My mother and my five aunts gathered to harvest and can or freeze the fresh produce from my grandparent’s farm.  They made it into a party for themselves, and  I found the laughter, the comraderie, the female gossip, and their fun irrisistible.  I was constantly hanging around, snooping when necessary, outright joining in if permitted.  I learned everything a girl could want to know and probably some things I shouldn’t have known at that age from that crew of wonderful women.  So, in addition to the delicious contents of those old mason jars, I got myself some delicious womanly knowledge.  I have a few of those old Ball jars in my kitchen and the sight always reminds me of those good times”.

 

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Shaking things up.

“Do one thing everyday that scares you.”   -Eleanor Roosevelt
  I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone a lot lately!  I get very happy, cozy, comfortable in my little house, on my little street, with my little family and don’t venture outside of my box too often.  I have everything I need and want right here.  But it is sooooo great for the soul to shake things up and try new things, even when it’s scary for us introverts that just want to go to bed at 7:00 pm with a good book and a warm hubby.
The art festival was awesomeeeeee!  I can’t explain how much fun I had!!  I was there 45 minutes early for set up (type A, first born, perfectionist) and had extra time to get the booth exactly how I wanted it to look.  Again ANAL.  I sat in my chair, listened to music and talked with lots of interesting and inspiring people.   Some of my favorite people came by to see me which meant the world to me and sells were great.  The encouraging words I heard from some of you Saturday morning gave me the boost I needed and jump started a day that turned out to be wonderful.  A little extra love and some kind words are sometimes all you need.  I am soooooo glad I did it.  I think about all I would have missed out on if I hadn’t participated.  Being there for 12 hours, I was bone tired by 9:15 pm when we packed up our cars but it was a good tired.  I was FREAKING out because I had to get home in the dark from downtown Charlotte.  I almost wreaked my car when I turned the corner and saw all the big downtown buildings lit up in the night sky.  I was directly under them!  I have lived here in the Charlotte area for over 7 years and am ashamed that I haven’t seen this beautiful skyline at night more often.  It was beautiful AND I made it home by myself in the dark on those crazy roads.  I feel really proud of myself and feel stronger.  I want to do more. I want to experience more.  I want to break out of my little box.
Here are a few photos from the festival.  I mostly forgot I even took my camera!

 

This week I am doing something else I have never done!!  I am going to the Haven Conference!!!!  The Nester and I leave tomorrow afternoon and will be driving to Atlanta for three nights!!!  I have barely conquered Charlotte roads and am now taking on Atlanta.  I will be driving in Atlanta traffic, trying to find our hotel, and trying not to get us killed all at the same time.  Luckily Nester has been in the car with me lots of times, so I think she knows what she is getting herself into.  Any who 2 days of Do it yourself conference bliss!  I CAN NOT WAIT.  It will be nice to get out of here for a few days.  Nice to have a break from the kids (even though I loveeeeeeeeeee them, breaks are soooo good).  I think the kids could use a break from me as well!  Just a change of scenery, a change from the everyday normal, a chance to learn and grow with a good friend.  I am really excited!

Ok so these pictures have nothing to do with what I am rambling about. I thought I would throw them in, because this is me NOT stepping outside my box and using the same colors that I always do and love!!!

$8.00 yard sale find.

$7.00 antique store find.



I didn’t even clean my brush before adding another color.  I told you I was getting crazy!

Great grandmother’s fabric!

How are you going to shake things up today!?!?!
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The freak in the green and yellow sundress.

Hi, nervous here. 
 I have my art festival today and I feel sick to my stomach.  I’ve been up since 4:00am thinking about booth set up, square (I don’t even know how to use), driving into Charlotte and no clue where I’m going, how I’m going to stay awake till 9:00pm when I am already tired and I haven’t even set up my tent.  Oh and how am I going to set up this tent by myself!?!?
You would think this was my first art festival.  It’s not, I’m just a freak.  It’s something about putting your art out there for people to see and then to buy or not buy.  The thrill of getting a sell and someone liking your stuff is soooooo exciting, BUT to see people just walk by your booth crushes me just a little bit each time.  It’s so much easier to put your stuff in a boutique or shop and then you don’t have to be there to witness how people react to your creations.
Ohhhhh how I want to be a free spirit, laid back, go with the flow kind of person.  Someone who completely trusts the Lord and doesn’t worry.  I need to go sit and pray.  But then I feel so guilty praying for help to get through my silly day when there are hungry children and homeless people sleeping under bridges right around the corner from where the art festival is taking place.
Ok now I am sitting here thinking why am I wasting my time doing art festivals and painting things blue and cutting owls out of wood, when I should be doing more to help the poor and the homeless.  See what little sleep does to me. 
 Ok so will you come see me!?!? I will be the freak in the green and yellow sundress! 
 
Event: Creative Loafing Art & Music Festival
Date: Saturday, June 16th
Time: 12pm – 9pm
Location: NC Music Factory, Plaza Fountain
Cost: Admission and Parking Free to Public
Details:
All day event with 4 local bands, 25 local artists, local restaurants, and outdoor patios overlooking the plaza. Rain or shine
Insert big crazy smile here!
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